There are a lot of things that people are trying to do to make sure that they can fall in love in the way that they have always dreamed. There are many people who try spells of love in order to see what is going on and to try and make it so that they can achieve their goals without issues, but there are a lot of considerations that need to be looked at before anything else in your relationship. What can you do to make it more exciting and wonderful for you in the long run?
Your brain chemistry can help you to answer that a bit. You see, the mind is a powerful thing and there are a lot of little things that you need to be able to do to make it all work out. If your mind is not prepared for whatever it is that you’re looking to do with your life, then you will have a lot of difficulty in regards to how you want to get there to make things happen. Not only that, but you will start to see that the steps you are taking toward romance are not necessarily going to be reciprocated, no matter how hard you may try to make it happen in the first place.
Everyone that has been in a long term relationship has noticed that phases of ´lust´ and ´romantic love´ tend to disappear over a certain period of time- usually from two to four years- when our brain lowers the production of dopamine and norepinephrine and increases the serotonin levels setting our bodies on the third phase of ´attachment´. But, what is attachment and is it actually going to matter?
This phase leads us to feel calmer and develop deeper feelings of affection and union with our partner. Even though, when the phase kicks off it can be pleasurable calm after a storm of feelings- after a while can lead us to routine and boredom. Thankfully, that doesn’t mean that you are going to want to leave the person that you love. If you are devoted to it and you want to actually move forward with your relationship, you want to start thinking about other factors and know that, no matter what, you’re doing what you can to keep up with love and see a difference in how you want to get to this point in all of the things that you want to be able to achieve.
But what are the factors that make ´romantic attraction´ last? How can we make this period longer and enter on the ´attachment´ phase without completely losing the excitement provided by our brain chemical reactions? That’s where using magic and other resources can actually be a pretty big deal. Consider looking at all of your options and seeing what it could do for you in the end, it will be a huge help and allow you to really fall in love with the person who has caught your eye.